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Is it ok to feel lust for someone even while in a committed relationship ?...It is just a thought after all & maybe a lil' fantasizing...Yay or nay.
 

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Lust would be pretty strong. I think it is OK to admire beauty in all forms and noticing a beautiful woman is part of that. Lusting is a self-indulgent sexual desire (personified as one of the deadly sins), and with that definition I'd have to say NO it is not OK when in a committed relationship.
 

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UNLESS UR DEAD -it's un-avoidable

even if YOU think you cant go there - sometimes you can even surprise urself

NOW - ACTING UPON that lust/attraction - is a whole other thing!!
 

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I'm not sure that I actively lust after other women but I do see attractive women to whom I give a second look. Of course. Thing is, I know in my mind that I don't want another woman because I know that my wife is absolutely down for me, no matter what and NO other woman could compete with that! I don't give a damn how hot she is...just another hot chick with a whole new set of problems.
 

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My thoughts exactly; well put G!:b
We are animals, we have primal instincts but we also have the ability to control whether we act on those "instincts".

CJ

WATCHURSELF wrote:
UNLESS UR DEAD -it's un-avoidable

even if YOU think you cant go there - sometimes you can even surprise urself

NOW - ACTING UPON that lust/attraction - is a whole other thing!!
 

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Oh Tk brother you are killing me!!!

i have to agree with TK, more then 1 set of problems is enough for any man that has his head on strait. Back in the day it wasnt about 1 women, no matter if I lived with her or not. Today I look back and say Dayum Rip was all of that crazyness worth the trouble those women gave you! The answer was Yes!!!:%

Today not so much, 1 women is hard enough who needs another or even the thought of another!:madd


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I'm not sure that I actively lust after other women but I do see attractive women to whom I give a second look. Of course. Thing is, I know in my mind that I don't want another woman because I know that my wife is absolutely down for me, no matter what and NO other woman could compete with that! I don't give a damn how hot she is...just another hot chick with a whole new set of problems.
 

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RipitRon wrote:
Oh Tk brother you are killing me!!!

i have to agree with TK, more then 1 set of problems is enough for any man that has his head on strait. Back in the day it wasnt about 1 women, no matter if I lived with her or not. Today I look back and say Dayum Rip was all of that crazyness worth the trouble those women gave you! The answer was Yes!!!:%

Today not so much, 1 women is hard enough who needs another or even the thought of another!:madd


TUNAKLLR wrote:
I'm not sure that I actively lust after other women but I do see attractive women to whom I give a second look. Of course. Thing is, I know in my mind that I don't want another woman because I know that my wife is absolutely down for me, no matter what and NO other woman could compete with that! I don't give a damn how hot she is...just another hot chick with a whole new set of problems.
I'm with Rip and TK on this one...couldn't say it any better.
 

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You can always take a look at the menu.
You just can't order anything to go.....
 

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Agree'd

I will look a chick up and down, with out any issues. But when things fire up below the equator its time to get out of dodge. Big difference!

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sounds likesome of youthink looking at a womanand lusting after oneis the same thing!!! think a whole lot more goes into lusting after someone!!
 

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Lust is natural. But we also have higher thinking. There's also absolutely no excuse to act on those lustful thoughts and feelings unless the person is A)Your significant other, and B ) They are receptive :)
 

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Lust is a slippery slope.

Looking is one thing.

But lusting leads to scheming, andonce you're convinced that it could be done you're doomed.

I only have one rule about this.

"She better be a hell of a lot better than the one you have, cause you just might get stuck with her."

I'm not saying this works everytime but it usually does the trick.
 
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