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I am an old-school Latin Guy -what do you think??

although -some women (In NYC) dont appreciate it - alot are still surprised when such an act is commited(used to be commonplace).

funny thing is -recently i had a lady (young) hold the door for me - i think she was flirting with me!! -it felt kinda odd having a girl do that for a guy - she was all smiles doing it and winked at me - se was cute too!!

too bad i'm done in that area - 10-15 yrs ago i woulda - ohh well lets not go there!!! :%

Duchess wrote:

Do you hold the door for women ?...Pull out her chair as she is being seated ?...Adhere to the old adage, "ladies before gentlemen" ?...OR...Do you believe that after spending years trying to be heard while saying we want to be treated as strong, capable & independant women that we no longer deserve those courtesies & chivalry is, in fact, dead and we killed it.

 

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yeah you would think they could at least smile!!

its almost like they are royalty and YOU SHOULD BE HOLDING the door for them!!

Alot of snobs out there!!!

TUNAKLLR wrote:

Not dead here Duchess. I hold the door open all the time. Hell, I do it for men too. At times though, I wish I hadn't held the door for some some a-hole, male or female, that didn't have the common courtesy to say thanks or just simply acknowledge me.

 

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me too - a couple of times i have not held up - i say "YOU'RE WELCOME" nice and loud just to be an A$$HOLE -i guess its the NY in me cause i DONT LIKE being treated like a POS as i dont do it to others!!

TUNAKLLR wrote:

I tell ya G., it takes everything I have to keep my thoughts suppressed when that happens.